Monday, July 26, 2010

FREE Digital Issue of TOS magazine

Traditionally, The Old Schoolhouse includes a larger number of articles about homeschooling students with special learning challenges in the summer issue. No, they don't ignore us the rest of the year, but this issue is more heavily weighted to topics dealing with special needs. This year's summer issue is no exception. I received my snail-mail copy of it, Saturday.

Today, I learned that TOS is making the digital version of this magazine available to anyone who would like it, for free.

Just go here:

Be sure to check out the interview with Kathy Bolduc; the articles by Carol Barnier and Heather Laurie, for starters.

Together Again (and signs of progress)

We picked up eldest from camp yesterday, and I love how the sibs interacted after being apart for a week-and-a-half. (So, I can't take a clear photo while walking. Oh well. I still love this photo:)
I was completely dreading a bit anxious about the final concert. Last year, the skating princess was unable to sit through the concert, and her behavior had people staring and me chasing her during the concert.

This year, I chose seats halfway up, in the front row of the section with benches, giving her room to move around. I had hard candy for oral motor proprioception. Her dad walked with her until the concert began, getting wiggles out. And we all crossed our fingers when the concert began.

The unknown length of the concert creates anxiety for my girl. The program looked long. Would she be able to control her screeching and defiance and sit respectfully through the concert, even when she didn't want to be there? How would the memory of how she (didn't) cope last year affect her this year?


There are so many things, developmentally speaking, to have to come together for an event like this, for a child on the autism spectrum. Until I had a child on the autism spectrum, I had no idea. Just the level of joint attention is huge, knowing that Mom and Dad want to watch the concert, that others around us want you to be quiet is big. Co-ordinating and co-regulating yourself with the strangers around you, avoiding bumping into someone next to you, is a challenge. Following the program is yet another skill which includes figuring out which symbol means the band is about to play and which symbol means the orchestra is about to play. Having the desire to run away and scream and screech in protest out of anxiety and fear of the unknown and a memory from last year must have been gi-normous. Having the self-control to suppress the desire to run and scream is even bigger than gi-normous, especially when there was an absolutely gorgeous lake behind the band shell, visible from where we were sitting. (Can you see the lake? The photo is deceiving, I think. The lake is much closer than it appears, below.)
Amazingly, she held her own. She sat with us the entire time and asked several times if the concert was about to be over, and she asked to go to a restaurant to get something to eat, but for the most part, kept her voice low and, for her, calm (which I would translate to mean only slightly screechy).

That, my friends, is a SUCCESS! Maybe some of our practice in collaboration is paying off.

After the concert, SISTERS:

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Blowin' in the wind...


We had another opportunity to see The World's Largest Working Weathervane over the weekend.


First, an FBA and BIP for a killer whale; now, an elephant

As the serious issue of seclusion and restraint is being debated within the U.S. legal system, (yet ANOTHER great reason to homeschool!) with parents of children in special education begging for FBAs and BIPs for their children to avoid the need for restraint and seclusion in the first place, I see another *animal* is in the news with an FBA and BIP. Last time, it was a killer whale. This time, it's an elephant.

Saturday, July 24, 2010

Those were the good ol' days...

We are planning a trip to pick up eldest from camp, which involves a three-hour drive across the state. We are looking at travel books for some things to do near the camp the night before we pick up our girl.

Younger sister was reading a travel book last night that includes activities in a five or six state area: "Ah, Indiana," I heard her sigh, wistfully, "where Holiday World is. Oh, those were the good ol' days!" (We were there just a month ago.)

Friday, July 23, 2010

Garlicky Green Bean Salad

My friend, Candace, e-mailed me this recipe today. She didn't know that I have fresh green beans in the refrigerator. ;)

Garlicky Green Bean Salad

6 cups fresh green beans, cut in half
1 clove garlic, chopped
¼ tsp salt
2 Tbsp wine vinegar
¼ tsp Dijon mustard
4 Tbsp extra virgin olive oil
Freshly ground pepper

Cook the green beans. When done, cool, then put into the refrigerator to chill.

While the beans are chilling, make the dressing: Mash the garlic and salt together. Stir in the vinegar and mustard. Gradually beat in the oil with a whisk. Grind on the pepper.

Add the dressing to the beans and stir well. Keep in the refrigerator until an hour before serving time. Let come to room temperature and stir well before serving.

This is best made a day or two before serving so the flavors can blend.

(Adapted from ideas in The Victory Garden Cookbook by Marian Morash, Alfred A. Knopf, 1982)

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Thursday, July 22, 2010

Bizarre Traffic

My blog is getting traffic that I do not understand. According to the new gadget I installed that shows where recent visitors to this blog are located, one visitor is returning to the same page over and over and over and over and over for days and days and days:

A visitor from Oconomowoc, Wisconsin viewed "Homeschooling, Autism, & "Stuff" : Journal Pad - sale alert" 28

Why?

TOS e-book: Travel Kits (A TOS Crew Review)

My husband and I happen to live a day's drive away from our families. We travel more than 600 miles one way to get "home". That's a long day for an adult; it seems even longer to children; and even longer to the adults in the vehicle with the children when the children are ready to be there. Traffic jams and road construction can add time to the trip.

I cruise around sale racks year round looking for an activity book or non-messy craft that I can buy in multiples and set aside for our long drives to see family far away.

I've gotten to be pretty good at it, if I do say so myself. ;) Well, I thought I was good at it, until I read this e-book.

When I got the opportunity to review this "Travel Kits" book, I said, "Yes, please!" for myself. The subtitle is "A Simple Way To Bless Others" and yes, I'd like to be able to create travel kits for other families, but I'll be honest: I wanted this e-book to see if there are tricks and ideas that I have not thought of yet for my own crew.

My mother often had goodies ready to give my children as we were about to pull out of the driveway after a visit with her and Dad and head 600+ miles back to our house - she's been a creator of travel kits for a long time. ;)

I was in a hurry to peek inside the e-book. Author Donna Rees *clearly* has the love language of gift giving. Of course, I got as far as page 8 before I began feeling guilty about my motives:

WHY: To bless others! Jesus exhorted us to do to others as we would have them do to us. (See Luke 6:31.) Travel kits are a great way to love and serve others. If you’re like me, you’ll discover that giving pleasure to others will delight you more than anyone else, even though your own delight is not your motive. And God loves a cheerful giver; He said so. (See 2 Corinthians 9:7.)

Oh well. At least I'm honest. One reason I wanted to peek at this one is because we have some travel on the calendar in the next few months. I got the e-book the day prior to leaving for a day-long drive (not enough time to create a kit for my kids, but we have several trips planned, some short ones, this summer).

"Travel Kits, A Simple Way To Bless Others" is a 93 page e-book available for purchase at TOS store.

Click HERE to see a sample of the e-book.

I anticipated the e-book targeting kits mostly for the littles. I'm pleased to tell you that there are ideas for kits for older children and for the parents, too. There are lots of color photos to give me a visual of how a finished kit might look.

The title could be a bit more broad; I can think of other ways to bless families (including me blessing my own children) with a kit. I am thinking of a new kit for my daughter for some of her brother's baseball games. Maybe that would keep her occupied for a little while so that I can watch some of his game. Chapter Twelve, Variations on a Theme, does address other uses for travel kits, including prepping daily surprises for a child away at an extended adventure or camp. (I have one child attending a camp part of this month.)

GFCFers: There are a couple of snack recipes in the book; they are NOT gfcf. Not a big deal for me. (Note to self: Ask some GFCFers to help me create a list of appropriate food items.)

The section of the e-book that offers tips from travelers is excellent and offers travel tips from a mom who is blind who is also the parent of a child who is blind.

AUTISM INTERVENTION VALUE: Putting together a travel kit, camp kit, baseball game kit etc requires perspective taking and attention sharing at multiple levels. Travel kits are a wonderful way to practice perspective taking and attention sharing in context with a child on the autism spectrum. As you think about what you might put into a kit for another person or family, you must ask a lot of questions, putting yourselves in their shoes. Are there food allergies in the family? What snacks might be too messy for the car? If we include a chocolate bar, should we include a package of wipes, too? Are there small children on the trip, small enough that we have to be mindful of avoiding small items, like beads in kits? Where is the destination and how will that affect what we put in the kit? We might not include a deflated beach ball for a family going snow skiing. Donna Rees does a wonderful job walking readers though the steps of perspective taking and attention sharing as we think about preparing a kit for a specific family and trip or event.

I haven't used the ideas for traveling, yet. I had to make a very long drive without the ideas from the e-book (because it arrived too close in time to my trip). I have used the ideas for baseball games and for camp. The picture at the left is my younger daughter playing with an item from her "kit" at one of her brother's baseball games. I bought enough items to share in case other little girls were attending the baseball game.

My older daughter is at a fine arts camp with her french horn. I mailed a music themed box to her (friends helped me brainstorm ideas) that included paper clips shaped like musical symbols, Symphony candy bars, ink pens with "Rock!" written on them, stickers of musical instruments (including a french horn, of course), stickers of musical notes, stickers with guitars, a wood cutout guitar w/ markers to decorate (like the cutout my younger daughter is decorating in the photo at left). I sent some glow sticks and some ugly teeth for the whole cabin. I sent it two days ago; she won't get the box until tomorrow, and, since she's away for another week, I won't know her reaction until after this review is published.

Rees helps readers prep a basket for a sick neighbor or friend, too. There are lots of reasons to give a kit.

Extra costs: Printing costs (this e-book has beautiful color photos, making it more expensive if you choose to print in color).

To read the reviews about this product by my Crewmates, go HERE.

TOS gave me a complimentary (review) copy of the TOS e-book, Travel Kits, to review on this blog. I received no financial compensation for this review and am not obligated to provide a positive review.

Monday, July 19, 2010

Trash Talking

I must share a note that I wrote earlier today:

Twins are competing on the Wii. Sis is *winning*. And she's *trash talking* her brother. I wish I had the video camera. She's boasting, reminding him of losses, telling him there's probably nothing he can beat her at. Oh my. Those of us who know us, know our situation, know this is a reason to have a party! lol

They looked and sounded like typical sibs for a moment, and they were having so much fun!

There are moments when conditions are just right, where interaction is set at the right speed for my girl to process, and there are few enough attention grabbers that she is able to shift attention among them all with ease and competence. I love these moments.

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